When you don’t know what you want…I was just speaking to one of the servers at the airport and he said how life has to be better than working at a coffee shop…we ended up chatting away and I showed him how to figure out what you want. Here are the steps for you too:
1. When you don’t know or are unsure of what you want, focus on understanding what you DON’T WANT. Why is this important? Because this is vital information for you to build from. What do you not want to experience? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you dislike? What is unacceptable? What do you not enjoy doing?
2. Then look at your list and ask yourself for each point what is the opposite of what you don’t want? What do you want to experience instead? What do you like prefer? What would you like MORE of in your life?
3. Now it’s crunch time! Now you’ve gotta ask yourself what needs to change? What decisions will
you have to make to design the new life/career/relationships/experiences that you want instead?
4. Find the COURAGE to take the steps to make it happen. Also side note: there will likely be knock backs, twists & turns, disappointments & setbacks…ask yourself how much do you want what you want and keep going, keep going, keep going! Only you can walk your path through life so design the life you want to experience #leilaswisevibes
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